ARE YOU IN TRANSITION, DEALING WITH NEW CHALLENGES AND LOOKING FOR A SENSE OF PURPOSE, PATH AND WAY TO MOVE FORWARD? I CAN HELP YOU GAIN CLARITY, PROCESS FEELINGS AND EXPLORE THE DEEPER MEANING AND SENSE THAT CAN GUIDE YOU TO MAKE CHANGES THAT FEEL PURPOSEFUL AND RIGHT FOR YOU.

About

Matthew Jacobson

A cracked, dark glass bottle half-buried in rich, loamy soil of a garden bed, its cork pushed out as luminous golden mist and tiny, abstract light forms pour upward, expanding into the dusk sky. Around the bottle, tender green shoots and white blossoms emerge from decomposing brown leaves and twigs, showcasing life rising from decay. Gentle golden-hour sunlight slants across the scene, glinting on the glass and illuminating specks of soil in the air. Photographic realism with a low, close-up angle, crisp focus on the bottle and mist, background softly blurred, creating a mood of liberation, healing, and the release of long-held energy into spiritual renewal.

Services

Sessions unfold online, in the Seattle area, or through travel intensives. We focus on life transitions, erotic and spiritual integration, creative purpose, and responding to this historical moment with courage, clarity, and embodied wisdom.

Reviews

Aya Nakamura

“Our work turned years of hiding my bisexuality into a fierce tenderness toward myself; I finally trust my own path.”

Mateo García

“He helped me meet my cravings, porn use, and grief as messengers, not failures; my body and spirit feel allied again.”

Posts

A spiral stone pathway made of irregular, smooth river rocks in shades of slate, sand, and muted rose, winding inward across a quiet meadow toward a single, luminous seedling pushing up through dark compost at the center. The surrounding grass is dew-kissed and soft, with a few feathers and fallen petals scattered along the path like subtle markers of past stories. Overhead, an overcast sky diffuses silvery light, bathing everything in a calm, contemplative glow. Photographic realism, shot from a slightly elevated angle using the rule of thirds, with gentle vignetting at the corners to draw the eye inward, symbolizing the journey into one’s true myth and gradual rebirth.

Thresholds

An evening circle for queer souls ready to alchemize loss, desire, and transition into living, breathing purpose.

A rugged shoreline at twilight where waves rhythmically wash over smooth black stones, each retreating wave leaving behind a mirror-like sheen that reflects the deep indigo sky and a thin band of rose-gold at the horizon. On the wet stones rests a single, intricately carved wooden mask, half-submerged, its features softened by years of water and salt, hinting at identities long worn and now released. The scene is lit by the last, low light of day, creating subtle highlights along the mask’s edges and gentle shadows between the stones. Photographic realism, captured from a low angle with a wide lens for sweeping depth, evoking surrender, authenticity, and the ongoing dance of loss and renewal.

Rebirth

A weekend intensive in Seattle for gay and bi clients reclaiming erotic innocence, spiritual depth, and embodied direction.

ON YOUR PATH:

Life coaching for bi, gay, trans, non-binary men and women

If you are struggling with not feeling like you are on your path then reach out. I have over 25 years of experience helping people find a sense of meaning, purpose and direction in their lives.

Online, in person, special in-home arrangements across the USA.

By appointment, including weekends

Phone

(360)230-8600

Free consult

Share where you’re stuck, what you long for, and we’ll see if this deep work fits now.

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Newsletter

Occasional reflections on desire, transition, spirit, and queer resilience.